订婚

dìnghūn

to get engaged

HSK 6

漢字分解

Meaning and Usage

The word 订婚 (dìnghūn) specifically refers to the act of getting engaged, that is, formally agreeing to marry someone. It is a significant step before marriage and often involves a ceremony or announcement.

Common Contexts

订婚 is used to describe the engagement period or event. It is often contrasted with 结婚 (jiéhūn), which means to get married. For example, you might say “订婚” to announce that a couple has become engaged.

Collocations and Patterns

  • 订婚仪式: engagement ceremony, usually simpler than a wedding ceremony.
  • 订婚戒指: engagement ring, a common symbol of engagement.
  • 订婚: got engaged, a common phrase to announce the engagement.

Usage Notes

When using 订婚, it implies a formal agreement or promise to marry, often involving families. It is more formal than just dating or being in a relationship. Avoid confusing 订婚 with 结婚, which means the actual marriage.

Common Confusion

Some learners confuse 订婚 with 结婚. Remember, 订婚 is the promise or agreement to marry, while 结婚 is the actual marriage ceremony and legal union.

例文

他们上个月订婚了,准备明年结婚。

Tāmen shàng ge yuè dìnghūn le, zhǔnbèi míngnián jiéhūn.

They got engaged last month and are preparing to get married next year.

订婚仪式通常比结婚仪式简单。

Dìnghūn yíshì tōngcháng bǐ jiéhūn yíshì jiǎndān.

Engagement ceremonies are usually simpler than wedding ceremonies.

他们订婚后,双方家长见了面。

Tāmen dìnghūn hòu, shuāngfāng jiāzhǎng jiàn le miàn.

After they got engaged, the parents of both sides met.