哭笑不得

kūxiào-bùdé

lit. not to know whether to laugh or cry (idiom)

HSK 7

漢字分解

Meaning and Usage

"哭笑不得" is a Chinese idiom used to describe a situation where someone feels confused or helpless, not knowing whether to laugh or cry. It often conveys mixed emotions of amusement and frustration or embarrassment.

Common Contexts

This phrase is frequently used when encountering unexpected or ironic situations that are both funny and troubling. It can describe personal feelings or the general atmosphere.

Typical Collocations

  • "哭笑不得 表情" (an expression of being at a loss whether to laugh or cry): describes a person's confused emotional state.
  • "哭笑不得" (makes people feel at a loss whether to laugh or cry): used to describe situations or events.

Nuances

Using "哭笑不得" implies a complex emotional response, often involving irony or awkwardness. It is more vivid than simply saying "confused" or "embarrassed". Avoid using it for purely sad or purely funny situations.

Common Confusion

Do not confuse "哭笑不得" with phrases that mean just "to laugh" or "to cry". This idiom specifically highlights the inability to choose between these two reactions due to mixed feelings.

例文

他听到这个消息后,真是哭笑不得,不知道该高兴还是难过。

Tā tīngdào zhège xiāoxi hòu, zhēn shì kūxiào-bùdé, bù zhīdào gāi gāoxìng

After hearing this news, he was really at a loss whether to laugh or cry,

面对突如其来的问题,他哭笑不得,只能暂时搁置。

Miànduì tūrú qílái de wèntí, tā kūxiào-bùdé, zhǐ néng zànshí gēzhì.

Faced with the sudden problem, he was at a loss whether to laugh or cry and

这部喜剧让观众哭笑不得,既感到好笑又有些无奈。

Zhè bù xǐjù ràng guānzhòng kūxiào-bùdé, jì gǎndào hǎoxiào yòu yǒuxiē wúnài.

This comedy made the audience at a loss whether to laugh or cry, feeling